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The Drawing of an Era


The Drawing of an Era

So, as I was discussing the current state of my relationship with a friend, causing bursts of laughter, I became aware that my relationships are entertaining… if you are not involved. Naturally from this laughter came the thought, “Wow this guy is a jerk”, which then quickly led to “Wow this guy is a jerk, [...]

 

Background Check


Background Check

Of course there will always be those friends who try to protect you…by digging up every single piece of dirt on the person you are thinking of seeing. I mean every girl he has dated, why they broke up and then all the way to his snoring problems and weird shaped toes. Don’t get me [...]

 


That is How Winning is Done

You always hear about the power of a woman’s scorn, but until you have actually experienced it, you will never know when you should actually be afraid. I have always thought that when we (women) are completely silent a certain amount of fear should register. There is an exception to this however, as we age [...]

 

Flower Power


Flower Power

Have you ever wondered how far your significant other will go to make you feel like you are special? Or if they could do it on their own without many….many hints? To go along with the struggle of dropping hints concerning places, objects and venues, you then have to hear the triumphant story about how [...]

 

Weather the Storm


Weather the Storm

Before the relationship between Boy and Girl began, a warning was given that should have been taken more seriously. The warning was not life threatening, it did not seem like it would change anything really. It was the statement “Before we start a relationship, you have to know that I really, really like video games.” [...]

 

Promises


Promises

Have you ever realized that absolutely everything can be justified by a guy when they make a claim about their beliefs? If you happen to ask for something they don’t fully support, a back massage for instance, regardless if they happen to promise or agree, you should know better than to expect one. Not only [...]

 

Importance


Importance

I think it is safe to say we have all questioned what the hell is going on in our significant other’s head, especially when they start to get that vacant yet pretending to listen look. We always end up wondering if the people we are in relationships with, are on the same page, in the [...]

 

Importance Part 2


Importance Part 2

No matter how much women complain about receiving attention, men often refuse to donate that extra bit of thought which results in an action… beyond the obvious. I suppose when those little things never get planned or accomplished you really have to debate if it’s worth it in the end. I mean really, if he [...]

 

Split Screen


Split Screen

Despite all attempts to come to an understanding, we will always have different interpretations of the situations we get ourselves into. Whether we blame it on previous experiences or how we were brought up, every situation, can be uniquely applied to every person. Sadly, this also comes with a consequence. Every memory will have more [...]

 

Just Do Not Think About It


Just Do Not Think About It

Have you ever had one of those picture perfect moments that you could almost swear had been pulled straight out of a movie? Scratch that, have you ever had a moment where you didn’t even seem to realize you have stopped thinking about everything around you? Usually it is in these moments that someone from [...]