For Future Reference

Sometimes, in a relationship, you need things to be put into perspective. You may not always have the picture perfect relationship the majority of us strive for, but it will always be something which is just for you.

I know the thought of exes is enough to drive any of us insane, to even think that they had anything that resembled what you have now is frightening. But with this should also come the comfort that it was in the past. For those people lucky enough to never have to hear from an ex of your significant other, please understand how much less turbulent your relationship will be. There will be no messages received from them while you two are relaxing, no phone calls for lunches, no being forced to see them on a regular basis, and no having to think about what they once had. I understand that if you trust who you are with, you shouldn’t have half of these concerns, but isn’t there always that little voice inside your head that says you can’t trust the ex? I mean, if you love someone, how can you understand why they let your current go? Bringing something from their past into your present is something which any person may falter over.

What it all boils down to is whether or not you love the person you are with more than you hate the concept of an ex floating around them.

In other news, I will be leaving for Busan, South Korea for a year in the next few weeks. Though this shouldn’t disturb when the new comics or blogs are posted, please bare with us as we try to find out if Mondays will continue to be when we post. Thanks.

Post written by Heather Whitney