On the 4th Day of Christmas

4 more days until Christmas, which means only 4 more daily update left! Keep checking boy-vs-girl to see where Boy goes wrong.

Have you ever felt like your relationship is a science experiment gone awry? I mean no other relationship could possibly be as screwed up as yours right? Sadly, this may actually be true, I think every single relationship is completely screwed up in it’s own unique way. I would absolutely love to get an outside opinion of when things go wrong, what the other person is thinking, what to work on…pretty much anything that continues to be a mystery even after dating for this long. Maybe there are some things members of the opposite sex are never supposed to understand, maybe it’s only the people who we are with right now that we are supposed to figure out…not the whole gender.

In movies and sometimes books it is always the male who doesn’t understand the inner workings of the mind of a female. However, it seems completely overlooked that women aren’t mind readers either, I mean we try, but come on sometimes you guys confuse the hell out of us.

A couple of my male friends gave me a hints as to how to understand what a male is saying: what he says is ALL he means. It’s so simple, there is no hidden meaning usually, just exactly what is said. We have become so used to using this cryptic language and trying to make the opposite sex decode what we say, we automatically assume they do the same.

Bring in the expert help when the situation boils down to an all or nothing… or when you feel like stumping the best.

Post written by Heather Whitney