On the 3rd Day of Christmas

Well you have been in a relationship for a while, and even though you love your significant other crazy amounts, you wonder if there can be any… improvements. I mean after a couple years you pretty much know all the boundaries of what the other person will do, or won’t do, but don’t you ever get curious about what certain things that you cannot have are like?

Sometimes you have to spice things up. Break out of the mundane ritual you have found yourselves in. Maybe it just takes change? I can honestly say I am starting to forget what romance feels like. I would love to get a surprise, or flowers, or to have an evening planned for me and one other person, a candlelit dinner, hell even an email…anything that would make a person feel special, or for just that second/minute/hour to feel like they are the only ones who matter in the world.

Sometimes you just need something unexpected.

Post written by Heather Whitney