Just Friends

We've all had that feeling where you just don’t feel like you can trust certain people around your significant other. It’s not that you don’t trust who you're with, it’s more that you know other people are not half as morally upright in comparison. There's a limit that needs to be set. You can’t simply hate every person who happens to be around your other half, just the select few who don’t understand social boundaries. However, we can’t only blame those people we feel threatened by. The person we choose to be with should be providing some kind of security or promise to remain faithful. Without some form of loyalty, there is no true relationship, just two people continuing to look for someone to actually make an effort with.

I realize most people would adamantly deny if they did cheat or even if they were thinking about cheating, but at least in the end you will know that they are not worth your time. Let the home wrecker have them and see how far their scattered version of loyalty can take them. Besides, even though some of us are far too considerate to stoop to their level, you can at least be happy knowing that whoever you were with previously will probably end up in the same spot as you were put into.

Post written by Heather Whitney